And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. I think your response is Bang on. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever.
If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since.
I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. There are a few things I've come to accept, though: Our house will never be clean We will never be caught up on laundry We will probably always eat take out instead of cooking Sleeping next to one another is something we now cherish I will not be a young parent I'm 21 now and we don't plan on having children until our thirties I will always love him and would never make him give up what he loves, just as he would never make me do the same. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. This is by design. Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family.
We have been married for a little over 3 years. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try.